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I think I may have lost her friendship over this. I tried to stay out of it for the sake of our friendship but when she asked my opinion I couldn't lie. She has been with her husband since high school and they have two children. She met this man who is obviously totally using her. He tells her how beautiful his wife is and how much he loves her and that he will never leave her. Yet he is having an affair with my friend. This cannot possibly end well for my friend. She has had mental health problems in the past and I'm sure she is going to end up in hospital if this carries on. She has lost her mind over this man and I don't know how to help her. I asked her to think of how this will hurt her children and her husband but she does not want to hear it.
We used to phone each other every day and meet up about once a week. The last two times I saw her I arranged it and the last time we met up she spent most of the time we were together speaking to HIM on her cell phone.She has not even texted me for at least three weeks now. I've been having some problems myself lately and when I told her she said "I wish my problems were that simple". This hurt me so much. We have always supported each other in the past. Its like this man has taken over her life and her mind.
I'm scared to even contact her because I don't know how to speak to her anymore. Has anyone had a similar experience? I hate this man for taking my friend from me.
We used to phone each other every day and meet up about once a week. The last two times I saw her I arranged it and the last time we met up she spent most of the time we were together speaking to HIM on her cell phone.She has not even texted me for at least three weeks now. I've been having some problems myself lately and when I told her she said "I wish my problems were that simple". This hurt me so much. We have always supported each other in the past. Its like this man has taken over her life and her mind.
I'm scared to even contact her because I don't know how to speak to her anymore. Has anyone had a similar experience? I hate this man for taking my friend from me.