[stellargirl9]

My man swears he is faithful. We have been together for two years. We spend practically every evening together and he showers me with love, attention, love letters, etc.... fast forward to last weekend. He went to a party and apparently met a girl there that he is interested in. Keep in mind he is 32 and she is 19. I didn't find out about him meeting this girl until 3 days ago when he accidently sent me an email intended for her. In it he stated how much fun he had, called her a pretty girl and said he would love to hang out sometime. Needless to say I flipped out and called him to confront him. He swears it was innocent and that she is just a "cool chick" and he meant nothing by it but as a friend. Hmmm. Red flags in high alert for me. SO I start checking his email. She wrote him back saying "sorry I can't go out on a date with you. You are a little too old for me. Ive spoken to my mom about it and she is furious. I hope you don't hate me. I think you are a sweet guy and dead funny. I would like to keep in touch" ....ok now to me it sounded like she is blowing him off (even tho his email never specifically said "a date" so I don't know where she is getting that from. Nothing more until this morning when my man writes her back saying he just wants to be friends, that he isnt a dirty old man, that he thinks she is totally interesting, first interesting girl he has met in a long time and would she like to get together for a movie. ............ WTF, didnt he take her hint? And why is he still pursuing it after her mail? And why is he doing this to me? Does anyone think I am overreacting here? I dont know why he is doing this to me and my heart is breaking. What should I do? PLEASE PLEASE help!