[stellargirl9]

Originally Posted by AngelaGM

I think you need to confront your boyfriend and ask him about his flirtation with this girl. Try to remain calm. I know that this is easier said than done. But I will be thinking about you. Please IM or PM if you need to talk.

I have confronted him and he totally denies pursuing her. but it totally seems and feels like he is. I am falling apart so bad over here.

Originally Posted by pinksugar

mmm, agreed, massive red flags for me. Maybe he couldn't stand the thought of being completely blown off like that, and so to save face he asked her to go to a movie as if to say, it wasnt a DATE, just as friends.

Either way, I would not be happy if I discovered that. The only thing I can think of to do, is to sit down and remain totally calm, and say to him 'look, you asking her to go to the movies alone with you is something that really upset me. If you do anything like that again, then you will KNOW you are hurting me, and you will have no excuse. If you choose to contact her again then you will be aware of how it is making me feel, and I may choose to end the relationship.'

I personally feel that 19 is not TOO young for 32, IF he was single, but he's not. He's supposed to be more mature than to be running after teenage girls. I'd be hella pissed off.

Best of luck chicken, definately keep us updated!

thanks. i just don't know what to do and wish i could find a way to divert this situation from happening.