[Jessica]

Well my husband is not an ugly duckling by any means but he was totaly not my type when we met. Actually we were total opposites!! He has long hair and I was totaly not into that, he is a biker and I tended to be more conservative. There was always a a spark there between us though (we were friends first).

I do believe though that there needs to be some sort of "chemistry" in order for you to persue something with this guy. So what the heck....go on a date and if there is no spark, well then you dont go out again but if you dont go out with him, you might never know what you're missing