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Originally Posted by Carolyn
To begin with - I love younger guys! I'm 44 and will only date guys 28 to 38.
When I was 28, I married a great guy 21. I'm divorced but we share a son together.
IMO there is absolutely OK to date a younger guy, but it does depend upon your comfort zone. For me to date an early 20's guy, I wouldn't feel comfortable because we wouldn't have that much in common. Sure he'd be great in the .... but I also want a guy I can have great conversation with - he knows the same music, movies, world events that I do.
As well, I want his friends taking me seriously. For me, that would only occur if he was somewhat closer in age to me.
I think really young guys are looking for a sugar mama when they date someone considerably older. Cold day in heck before I pay a man's expences.
If you are attracted to a younger man, I say go for it. Men are not hung up on age the way some women are. You might want to get to know him first before you introduce him to others. And enjoy him physically! Nothing better than the stamina and willingness to please than a younger guy!!!
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This is the age gap I am talkng about. He is 30 and I am 44. He was 24 and I was40 when we met. We have a love hate relationship or something. We have been off and on for 5 years with in betwee relationships. when they don't work we run back to each other and throw it in each others face. I keep stooping to his level sometimes to get along with him. This is the worst part, we work together! I had to switch shifts.