I would just keep it. Sometimes that will happen with my fiance. We'll agree on a low key gift, and he'll splurge, and I won't. Then there are the times when he'll ask for something really expensive ($6,000 dirtbike, a $1,000 statue ot the Lord of Darkness from the movie Legend), and I'll get a couple DVD's from him.

I think eventually it all evens out. Really it's the thought that counts.

So think of it this way.....spend a little more on her birthday gift or Christmas gift. Or get her a random gift when she won't expect it for no occasion whatsoever.

I'd be perfectly happy with what you did for your wife if I were her.