[Dragonfly]

My divorce came through 12 years ago. Since then I have met several men but only dated a handful of them. Currently I'm single.

When I'm in a relationship, I find holidays to be stressful. My partners want to please everyone - doing 2 dinners the same day, spending equal amount of time with both families, and spending too much money on gifts.

Because I've been single for a while, I think I view men more objectively. I don't get bowled over by a sly smile that easily. And I try to learn from past mistakes rather than hoping the next guy will be the one.

I'm quite content being a flirt. In time, I might consider another date.