[pinksugar]

haha! yes! obviously it depends on his personality which area of your relationship he starts putting less work into. A lot of it for my bf is he wont dress up nicely, we don't go out very often, that kind of thing.. but I guess it's just a case of him feeling comfortable with me. He no longer feels like I'm going to dump him at any minute, so he feels safe in putting less effort in.

I'm lucky because those areas only frustrate me sometimes, not ALL the time, so I consider his security with me a fair tradeoff, but if it was a different area (definately affection for me, I'm super affectionate) then I'd get irritated.

all I can suggest is that you talk to him about it and tell him that it upsets you. Best of luck, you're totally not the only one experiencing this!