[Darla_G]

Originally Posted by PrettyFlowers

I wanted to ask is it normal that after a couple of weeks or months that you find that your man does not put enough effort into the relationship?

I found with my guy, he does not want to kiss and cuddle as much as he used to. These are small things but that was part of what made me attracted to him.

Hey to take the guy's side here why don't you just tell him! I think it sometimes both of you can fall into a comfortable routine, but if that's the way you feel he may not realize it.

Originally Posted by Carolyn

I find that a lot of men equate cuddling with foreplay.
And women equate cuddling to affection.

If he thinks the cuddling will lead to sex, he's all for it.
If he knows cuddling is just that, he may not be interested as it may be too teasing - in his mind.
Or he is not comfortable with just giving affection.
He might have been raised by parents that did not demonstrate affection to each other.

I would agree with these statements.

Why make some little gesture early in the day and plant that seed of anticipation. If you do it right it will be the only thing on his mind all day.