[mahreez]

oh i feel for you. my bf and i had a huge fight before and he almost hit me...though they said, it's just as good as being hit coz the attempt was there. i know what you mean by you think it's not an option to leave. coz you're still hoping that somehow he'll change.

after that incident...it never occured again because we managed to settle our differences and not get into huge fights anymore. we give each other space when we're upset coz we don't want to get into heated arguments again.

however, if he hit me even at least once or no matter how insignificant it may seem. i will definitely leave him. i don't care if he's the nicest person in the whole world...if he couldn't control himself out of respect for me. then i don't know what else could change him.

i don't know you, but i do know that you don't deserve being treated this way. take care.