Thank you everyone for the posts.. Right now he is in afganastan for a year. He gets to come home 2 times for a couple weeks but other then that hes gone till march. i figured that this would give me time to myself to really realize if he is the one i want to be with and can get past everything. it hurt me really bad (not only cuz of our son) but i had other people do this type of stuff to me in the past and i told him about it all when we first started and of course you get all the false promises and the lies about how he will never do it.. we were suppose to plan the wedding for march 09 and i told him it had to wait till atleast september 09. he says sorry alot and thanks me for giving him a second chance to show me how much he loves me. its funny cuz i just got a message from him when he got on about buying a new engagement ring since i told him the last one didnt mean jack s**t to me..
to sweetnsexy6953... unfortunately i cant respond to your
pm since i dont have 50 posts yet. but the site is
Google its a
search engine. you type in the persons name and everything that he is signed up to should come up. even court dates from speeding tickets come up. you will have to
search threw the results but if there is anything its there. and if they have a nickname like
tony for anthony or drew for andrew you have to try that way too..