Sorry to hear you go through all of that...I was having a casual relationship with a cop for the past couple of months and it's pretty much out the window now. Not that I had ever caught him lying, but I wouldn't be surprised if he had some other girl on the side. Sometimes the stories just don't connect, but I'm not the type of person to question him. What's done is done. I just pack my stuff and leave.
Since you've been with him for awhile it might take some time in letting go...but I think it's for the best. Lying is the biggest pet peeve of mine. I wouldn't want to be with someone who wasn't truthful from me in the start. Marriage is a really big decision and luckily you found out sooner than later. For him to apologize and saying sorry means nothing...A guy doesn't change. Men are going to be men, it's usually the women who has to adapt to their behaviors and put up with them. I wish I could give you more advice on this, but you're smart enough to do the right thing
