[Adrienne]

I wouldn't marry the guy at all. I, unfortunately , was also cheated on during my 7th or 8th month of pregnancy with our first child. I'm still married and I do love him but i still have a nagging guilt that I shouldve been stronger.

Being 18, young and stupid, I stayed and literally had to deal with his leaving me behind for his friends up until early in the morning. I practically raised our son alone for the first two years.

He did make a dramatic change and to be honest I don't know what finally clicked last summer. I guess he finally realized that I was getting tired and didnt' even put any effort into the fights or really could care less. I think he noticed I didnt' cry anymore. Slowly I became stronger and now, if he decides to step out of line, he knows I'm gone in the blink of an eye.

But to be honest, I waited a long time and I still have to deal with his super insane jealously. I just brush him off and ignore it and its working but that doesn't stop him from having his thoughts. I guess it worked out okay for us but if I was in your shoes again, and knew what I know now, as good as it is now, in a wierd way, I'd still leave. The time it took for him to change was not worth my self disrespect for all those years.