[laurreenn]

i think it's natural to have cold feet. marriage is a big decision that will permanently alter your life. it's normal to wonder about the alternatives and wonder if you're making the right choice. it's foolish to jump into a big decision like this without considering all the possibilities and consequences. after you've thought long and hard about whether you want to marry him and decide it's the right choice for you, then you'll know he's the right one. it's a better indicator than whether or not you get cold feet :]