confusing friendships
Posted 01-06-2008 at 12:52 AM by LittleMissLilo
I've had the hardest end of 2007 and sometimes I feel like my 2008 is getting harder as the day goes by. I lost four best friends in 2007 at the end of the New Year. They kind of just dismissed me and left me hanging like that. I never understood it but it leaves me kind of hurt to this day. I try to reassure myself that friends arent everything and that I have myself and family, but sometimes in the end I kinda need it? Its kinda sad to be honest that I'm even writing about this, but I need to get it out. I've been absolutely miserable and I dont know I just don't get it.
As for my boyfriend he just doesn't understand and it sucks. I know he's trying his best to reach out a hand but he doesn't know what I'm going through or let alone how important these people were to me. He doesn't understand its not something I can brush off. And I just want space to recollect myself. Its all so stupid but sucks.
As for my boyfriend he just doesn't understand and it sucks. I know he's trying his best to reach out a hand but he doesn't know what I'm going through or let alone how important these people were to me. He doesn't understand its not something I can brush off. And I just want space to recollect myself. Its all so stupid but sucks.
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This sounds like the same thing that I went through last summer. My 2 best friends out of nowhere started getting mad at me and excluding me from hanging out with them. When I asked them about they blew up at me like it was my fault. Stupid stuff and my boyfriend was there for me, but he was like "who cares about them?"
It hurts. That was basically a very very shortened version. I hope you feel better soon. |
Posted 01-06-2008 at 01:52 PM by kitsune89
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I lost some friendships this year that were in their 10th year over silly, petty things. In fact I've lost a lot of friends over the past few years. It's really hard, it hurts. But I've learned that friendships don't always last. I feel that people come into our lives to serve some kind of purpose. Once that's filled, they'll leave. My issue was that I started making changes and went from a doormat to a very strong woman and I started living my life. This bothered A LOT of friends that liked they shy push over version of me. I agree with what my boyfriend says. If they can't see how happy I am and recognize the serious strides I've made in life then they aren't worth the smallest amount of energy.
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Posted 01-06-2008 at 04:20 PM by kissedbyfire
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I went through the same thing ..several ladies pretended to be my friend only to gossip and say bad things about me and still pretend to be my friend
I was truly hurt but I got over it .. because I know how karma works  |
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Posted 01-06-2008 at 05:36 PM by Ricci
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