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Old 04-03-2008, 11:49 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Ok is this cruel of me?

so basically me and my long time now ex-boyfriend broke up about 4days ago and he basically came to me hugging my waist on his knees crying,and i told him that he looks "soo f****n ugly when he cries" what can i say, some other b***h had him in bed, and he got caught and i know the ONLY reason he's sorry is because he got caught,everyone pretty much agrees with me,what do ya'll think?
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Old 04-03-2008, 11:55 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: ok is this cruel of me?

What is cruel is him hookin' up with another girl. Kick that boy to the curb and move on. Might be hard for a while, but you deserve better.
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Old 04-03-2008, 12:55 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: Ok is this cruel of me?

I would have been meaner....lol!
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Old 04-03-2008, 01:02 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Ok is this cruel of me?

I would've been even worse. When I'm a b**** when it comes to hurting me. If I need to get it off my chest, why not at the person that caused the pain in the first place.
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Old 04-03-2008, 06:07 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: Ok is this cruel of me?

Hey...that was in a Rihanna song!! but if it fits the situation, then why not?? No, I dont think you handled the situation cruelly. You could've kicked him then said that.
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Old 04-03-2008, 07:01 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Re: Ok is this cruel of me?

I would've been a lot more mean also! But to each his/her own!
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Old 04-03-2008, 08:04 PM   #7 (permalink)
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lol, Not at all.
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Old 04-03-2008, 08:23 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Re: Ok is this cruel of me?

Even though what he did was really wrong, I think it's also wrong to say that to him. No one deserves to be cheated on and no one deserves to be called hurtful names like that.
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Old 04-03-2008, 08:31 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Re: Ok is this cruel of me?

it's not my technique either, I agree with Simply Elegant. I wouldn't have done it for those reasons, but that being said he kind of did deserve it. Definately better than getting back with him, cos I agree with you, I think the only reason he said sorry was he got caught
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Old 04-03-2008, 08:32 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Re: Ok is this cruel of me?

Two wrongs dont make a right but sometimes it just feels so damn good......
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Old 04-03-2008, 09:31 PM   #11 (permalink)
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He got what he deserved
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Old 04-03-2008, 10:56 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Re: Ok is this cruel of me?

I'm so sorry he cheated on you and I know how much that hurts.

When someone hurts me like that I just cut them off from my life. They wouldn't even get a chance to come back to beg and cry. And I certainly don't waste energy on trying to get even because I'm better off putting all that energy into moving on and finding someone who really cares about me.
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Old 04-04-2008, 08:06 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Re: Ok is this cruel of me?

not in my opinion. =] haha.
I'm sure you were upset for awhile.. when he cheated on you., and so as i see it..
you deserve a smile.
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Old 04-05-2008, 09:17 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Re: Ok is this cruel of me?

If that's all you said, after what he'd done to you, then he'd probably be able to consider himself lucky. From the sound of it (you being unsure if that was cruel or not) I'd say you have a lot more anger inside you then just that tid bit. Better to let it out to him (h**l, he was the one in bed with someone else) then at yourself.
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Old 04-06-2008, 06:29 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Re: Ok is this cruel of me?

yikes i kind of did and it backfired a bit,but im over it now, we actually saw each other at a party last night and he attacked me,he literally cornered me and pushed me really hard up against the wall and a few of my friends pulled him off and made him leave
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Old 07-22-2008, 11:16 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Re: Ok is this cruel of me?

Reminds me of Rihanna's song take a bow
Your so ugly when you cry
Please
Just cut it out

And don't tell me you're sorry cause you're not
Baby when i know you're only sorry you got caught

Seriously if that is what's happening to you...i think he totally deserved it!!
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Old 07-23-2008, 02:24 PM   #17 (permalink)
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