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Old 03-03-2008, 03:07 AM   1 links from elsewhere to this Post. Click to view. #1 (permalink)
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Tried to move on

i tried to move on from my ex(as you all know from my last post) but it's just not working,i started talking to this new guy and it's just not the same, the hardest part of having to let someone go, is knowing you will never have what you had with that person with someone else :'(
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Old 03-03-2008, 03:26 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Tried to move on

I'm sorry to hear that. But, it can also be a good thing - it's really easy to start wallowing in self pity at a time like this, but what you have to remind yourself is of all the bad points about going out with your ex.

Even if it's only silly things like the way they would NEVER eat chinese food when you love asian restaurants.. whatever it may be, revel in it. Eat chinese every damn night!

take all the negatives and turn them into positives. Heart break doesn't last forever. It will pass.

Best of luck chicken! cheer up!
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Old 03-03-2008, 03:49 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: Tried to move on

nope you'll never have exactly that with someone else, but you'll have something better! There are billions of people in the world, so there's gotta be hundreds of thousands you can fall in love with and who will make you happy. Right now you dont wanna even think about someone else cos you just want that person but you'll move on eventually. It kind of just happens by itself.

You should give the new guy a chance if you like him. Even though he's not your ex, you might be surprised at where it ends up! xxx
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Old 03-03-2008, 08:32 AM   #4 (permalink)
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These ladies take the words right out of my mouth.

It does seem that you'll not find the same kind of love again. But just wait, you will find an even better love.
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Old 03-03-2008, 10:01 AM   #5 (permalink)
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thanks guys!! i'm going out for HOT WINGS TONIGHT!! he hated hot wings knowing it was one of my favorite foods! lol today is a little better =)
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Old 03-03-2008, 10:17 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Just focus on what you didn't like about him..... that always seemed to help me get over a guy...
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if i were you i would take some time alone and not necessarily try to replace him so fast. you need to get over him just a little at least before you can move forward with someone else. i hope u feel better soon!
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Re: Tried to move on

You're right-- you'll never have what you had with that person, ever again.

This can be a very good thing, right? I mean, you're not with him for a reason or multiple reasons. So, you'll never have to deal with those things from that person again.

I have a saying "I don't care how cute he is, some woman, somewhere, is sick of his crap."

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Old 03-03-2008, 10:42 AM   #9 (permalink)
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nope you'll never have exactly that with someone else, but you'll have something better! There are billions of people in the world, so there's gotta be hundreds of thousands you can fall in love with and who will make you happy. Right now you dont wanna even think about someone else cos you just want that person but you'll move on eventually. It kind of just happens by itself.

You should give the new guy a chance if you like him. Even though he's not your ex, you might be surprised at where it ends up! xxx
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Old 03-03-2008, 02:43 PM   #10 (permalink)
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lol i saw him today looking soo pitiful i dont know if it's mean but i'm glad to see him in soo much pity!
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haha i know it sounds mean too but when you see your ex look miserable it makes you feel good lol.
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Im sorry babe I know how it is. Its always hard at 1st....

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haha i know it sounds mean too but when you see your ex look miserable it makes you feel good lol.
I agreespecially when he knows you are doing fab!
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as i know.."Time is the Best healer.."

you will get over it..

just showing some love girl
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Old 03-03-2008, 11:07 PM   #14 (permalink)
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thanks again everyone love u all <3
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lol i saw him today looking soo pitiful i dont know if it's mean but i'm glad to see him in soo much pity!
I can relate to this. I hope you are doing better now.
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Old 03-09-2008, 12:47 AM   #16 (permalink)
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Re: Tried to move on

im trying hun,to the new thread i posted,i really wanted to start a new relationship but when i saw the stranger i was just soo breath taken i couldnt even talk to him and i lost him and now ill never see him again =/
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