[TAMMIESMITH5]

Has any one ever dealt with a younger man? Like "How Stella got her groove back " younger man.

[AngelaGM]

No I have not but I dated a MUCH older man!

[KellyB]

The youngest I have gone was 7 years. I was 41 and he was 34. I decided not to do that again.

[AngelaGM]

Please tell us more about your younger man! When you are ready of course.

[jakk-attakk]

i turned 23 in December, my kind-of-but-not-quite boyfriend will be 22 on wednesday and my friends keep telling me i cant go out with him cos "he's wayyyy too young for you!!" lol if that counts?!

[Darla_G]

you know i think it also depends on what stage you are in your lives. if one person was20 lets say and the other is 25 it might be a huge deal. if the both of you were in your 50s it is a pretty minor issue.

[speedy]

I spent 2 years with a guy who was 4 years younger. It didn't make much difference to our relationship, because he was really mature. At first the age difference freaked me out, but once I got to know him it didn't bother me. My brother's wife is 4 years older than him, and they have a great relationship.

[Carolyn]

To begin with - I love younger guys! I'm 44 and will only date guys 28 to 38.
When I was 28, I married a great guy 21. I'm divorced but we share a son together.

IMO there is absolutely OK to date a younger guy, but it does depend upon your comfort zone. For me to date an early 20's guy, I wouldn't feel comfortable because we wouldn't have that much in common. Sure he'd be great in the .... but I also want a guy I can have great conversation with - he knows the same music, movies, world events that I do.

As well, I want his friends taking me seriously. For me, that would only occur if he was somewhat closer in age to me.
I think really young guys are looking for a sugar mama when they date someone considerably older. Cold day in heck before I pay a man's expences.

If you are attracted to a younger man, I say go for it. Men are not hung up on age the way some women are. You might want to get to know him first before you introduce him to others. And enjoy him physically! Nothing better than the stamina and willingness to please than a younger guy!!!

[Ricci]

Im 37 he's 29

[Saje]

If it works or Demi ... :P

Im the younger one in the relationship... but if there is a connection and compatibility, as the cliche goes, age is but a number.

[dixiewolf]

in college I dated someone 4 years younger. He was mean, but I also dated a guy 3 years younger, and I was deeply in love with him. The last 2 have been 6 years older, and its not the same. Both have been absolutely horrible. Its like we are generations apart. I get treated like a child. I am probably going to end my 6 year relationship, and honestly, I would want either a younger guy or someone my age.

[TAMMIESMITH5]

Originally Posted by Carolyn

To begin with - I love younger guys! I'm 44 and will only date guys 28 to 38.
When I was 28, I married a great guy 21. I'm divorced but we share a son together.

IMO there is absolutely OK to date a younger guy, but it does depend upon your comfort zone. For me to date an early 20's guy, I wouldn't feel comfortable because we wouldn't have that much in common. Sure he'd be great in the .... but I also want a guy I can have great conversation with - he knows the same music, movies, world events that I do.

As well, I want his friends taking me seriously. For me, that would only occur if he was somewhat closer in age to me.
I think really young guys are looking for a sugar mama when they date someone considerably older. Cold day in heck before I pay a man's expences.

If you are attracted to a younger man, I say go for it. Men are not hung up on age the way some women are. You might want to get to know him first before you introduce him to others. And enjoy him physically! Nothing better than the stamina and willingness to please than a younger guy!!!

This is the age gap I am talkng about. He is 30 and I am 44. He was 24 and I was40 when we met. We have a love hate relationship or something. We have been off and on for 5 years with in betwee relationships. when they don't work we run back to each other and throw it in each others face. I keep stooping to his level sometimes to get along with him. This is the worst part, we work together! I had to switch shifts.

[Jamie L. Squire]

I love younger men, they are just so….insatiable! In no way will I ever be a “Sugar Mama” to any one, if they want to be with me, they pay the way for anything we do. I’ll cook in and such, and he may spend a night or two, but nobody moves in. I think they give more attention that older men, older men think you owe them something.

[Ricci]

I think we r talkin about relationships not paid sexual favors lol

Originally Posted by Jamie L. Squire

I love younger men, they are just so….insatiable! In no way will I ever be a “Sugar Mama” to any one, if they want to be with me, they pay the way for anything we do. I’ll cook in and such, and he may spend a night or two, but nobody moves in. I think they give more attention that older men, older men think you owe them something.

[Carolyn]

Originally Posted by TAMMIESMITH5

This is the age gap I am talkng about. He is 30 and I am 44. He was 24 and I was40 when we met. We have a love hate relationship or something. We have been off and on for 5 years with in betwee relationships. when they don't work we run back to each other and throw it in each others face. I keep stooping to his level sometimes to get along with him. This is the worst part, we work together! I had to switch shifts.

Do you think you go back to him because of the sexual attraction?
When I'm really sexually drawn to a man, it is almost impossible to stay away from him. It's the young ones I'm drawn to so I've had the craziest relationships with them. Can be a vicious cycle...

You are beautiful. Regardless of the man, make sure he treats you with the dignity and respect you deserve. If not, it's time to find someone that will cherish you and won't play exhausting games that no one wins.