[makeupjunkie00]

Hey everyone
I haven't been on in a while, but i really need some advice. There's this guy, he's my neighhbor and I still have feelings for him. He's has a gf and i don't want to cause any trouble or anything. I just want to talk to him and get to know him better. Last night, was his graduation (high school) and i went to go see my cousin. Afterwards, i went up to him and said contragulations and gave him a little hug. By the way, his gf was not there. My question is how do i let him know that i want to know him better? I mean he is my neighbor, but we really don't talk much. i don't think i could just go up to his house and ask for him. Is that crazy or maybe it's just me? I don't know. I've liked him since my freshman year of high school and i'm already going to be a senior! that's a really long time, I know. There are some things i wish he could know, before he goes away somewhere. He's already done with high school. I tell myself it's possible to go to his house and ask for him. If he's there, just tell him what i need to. But i also need help on what to do if he's not there? i think going to his house again would be kind of stalkish, would do u guys think i should do? I really need some advice, so please help!!!!

[Dragonfly]

I have to remind you that these are your words: "He's has a gf and I don't want to cause any trouble or anything." You have to know that if you try to get close to him, it is going to tick off his girlfriend.

If you want to have this guy as your boyfriend, then appoach him and ask him out on a date.
But always remember that if he stepped out on his girlfriend for you - he will step out on you to be with the next girlfriend.

If you really want to get to know this guy, and you don't want to start trouble, bide your time. He is young. The likelyhood is that he will become single again. Then you can make your move.

Hope I have helped

[makeupjunkie00]

Thanks Carolyn
Your advice really helped. I like him, but i wouldn't want him to be my boyfriend right now. anyway, i think you're right when u said his gf would get mad. I just don't know when he will be single. remember i don't talk to him that much. so how do i know when he's single? I don't even know if he'll move somewhere else? I guess i should let it be and see what happens. Thanks for the advice.

[internetchick]

If you still have feelings for him, then I can't see how you are not going to get hurt. He has a girlfriend. I don't mean to sound like I am picking on you, but I find it hard to believe you only want to get to know him.

[puncturedskirt]

He has a girlfriend, so I think you should just back off..Especially since you did infact say you didn't want to cause problems and you having a crush & wanting to get to know him better will cause problems..

[Ricci]

Couldnt of said it better

Originally Posted by puncturedskirt

He has a girlfriend, so I think you should just back off..Especially since you did infact say you didn't want to cause problems and you having a crush & wanting to get to know him better will cause problems..

[Johnnie]

Originally Posted by puncturedskirt

He has a girlfriend, so I think you should just back off..Especially since you did infact say you didn't want to cause problems and you having a crush & wanting to get to know him better will cause problems..

Amen!!

[Ashley]

I agree with everyone. You can't "get to know him better" if he has a gf and you have feelings for him already. I think it is best to stay away because you can potentially start a lot of trouble.

You can't know he's single until he tells you he is, so you're just going to have to wait for that opportunity.

[S. Lisa Smith]

Great advice!!!