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Join Date: May 2008
Location: Oakland
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Sibling rivalry.
Man, I got into a huge argument with my so called brother and sister last night, and I am now just recovering from it!!!
So, for the past couple of days my mom and I let my half sister and my niece, sleep over our house because they had somethings they needed to take care of in Oakland and Pleasant Hill/Martinez. You know why they had to stay over? It was because her low life drug addicted boyfriend was in jail! what a dummy!! The reason why he was in jail all started when they were in Alameda/Southshore center, they went to sit at a bench and found a purse, in it was $3000 cash in an envelope! The purse had ID and other things, but they still decided to keep it!! so with that money they bought some clothes and a used car for $650 which was located in Martinez...(and how they got from alameda to martinez to find the car is a mystery to me) but anyways!!! so the boyfriend was testing out the car driving and police pulled him over, of course the dummy had no seat-belt and on top of that he had a warrant! So he got taken in and then my sister and my niece is left alone with no place to stay, forced to stay locally so they can try and bail him out. All day, I was out w/my mom and my bf and through out that whole time my sister is blowin' up my cell phone calling non stop, but i knew that somethin' was up so i didn't answer b/c i knew she was just going to ask me for somethin' or for $$ w/e. So the next time they call, my mom answers and the next thing my mom says to me is that my sister is sleeping over, she said for one night because they had to bail out her bf in the morning. and I was like okay that's fine, it's just one night, plus I didn't want them out by themselves w/no place to go. So we got home and they were waiting on our porch. I let them in, gave them clean sheets to sleep on, let them borrow my pajamas, gave them my left over dinner from outback, washed their dirty clothes for them and sat and talked to them for a little bit to catch up.
The next morning, my sister leaves early to pay the bail bonds and leaves my niece b/c she is still sleeping, and she comes back and gets my niece and says thanks for the troubles and leaves to go to pleasant hill to get her bf. A few hours later, she calls and asks if she could stay at my place again for a while until her bf gets out then they're going to leave. Of course, I said sure that's fine. Then next thing I know her bf is knockin' on my door asking to come in and dummy me, I let him stay for a while and rest up because I semi felt sorry for the dude. So my sister and her bf decide to go bak to pleasant hill and get the car. So they come back after an hour and decide to go to the grocery store and get some lunch for all of us to eat, which I thought was a kind of them to do. After a while they leave without telling us and they don't come back until 11 p.m, on top of that my niece got all worried because she didn't know where they were and she couldn't get a hold of them. It was then I started to get really irritated and decide to let it go because my sister said she was looking for a place to stay and for a job. So they picked her up and they left, but they still had my clothes they borrowed from them and they said they would return it the next day, which was fine with me.
the next day comes (tuesday) and they arrive around 3pm after my mom leaves for work, with my brother and my two nephews. But unfortunately they said they forgot my clothes. Which kinda ticked me off. Then they stay over for a bit and my brother lays down on the couch to watch tv and eventually takes a nap. I was sitting on the couch watching the tube w/my bro and my sister walks in ask asks if she could borrow my slippers because she said she's going to take a walk. Hours pass and they're still not back! and I didn't even know that they took my little nephew with them, without a jacket and no change of diaper! So i go next door to my grandma's house which is also where my aunt and my cousins live and I bring my nieces & nephew with me so they could play. We all decide to play the Sims and we make our own family together, we play that for a few hours, eat dinner w/my aunt then about that time it's 9pm. They're still not home and my brother left my house to go meet them somewhere. I give my little niece & nephew a bath to get them ready for bed and I feel sorry for my sisters daughter because she hasn't showered in days and was stuck in the same clothes she's been in for 3-4 days! I couldn't lend her anymore of my clothes b/c I had already lent her the clothes that were too big for me, plus she's a big girl and i'm pretty short and petite so she couldn't fit into my clothes. That was when I got really ticked off I had her call her parents, my bro answered and said they would be home in 30 mins, which turned into an hour. By this time I was livid.
My brother arrives with my baby nephew, I take him and lock the door in my bro's face. I told him to stay out there until my sister and her bf got back and until my brother's wife came to pick him and the kids up (they all took public transportation to get to my house) So they all arrive at my house and I am yelling and arguing with them because they f'n leave the kids with me, without asking me if i could watch them for a while assuming that I will anyways if they don't ask b/c they know how much I love the kids, expecting me to watch all 4 kids by myself! It wasn't much of an argument though because I was the one doing all the yelling and I could tell my sister felt bad, but her dumb @$$ bf had the nerve to say "why are you scared of those people, let's get karina (my niece)" (talking to my sister & refering to me) OH MAN...at this point I was yelling my head off! This low life has the nerve to cross me and get mad at me! for what? for taking care of his family? when he's suppose to be the head of his family, taking care of them making sure they're all right! he doesn't even work! my sister makes the money, and he handles it? wth...no f;n way!!! this guy is such a loser!!!!! and he's blaming the fault on my niece because they claimed they asked if she wanted to go, and that she wasn't answering her phone...oh man that is so much BS right there!!! she was calling them the whole day and they only picked up once! They wouldnt even tell her where they were!!
Also, my brother has the nerve to call me a crazy drama queen and that i'm stupid and i'm a dumb @$$.. OMG!! i'm the dumb@$$ when I've been taking care of his daughter for the past month! sacrificing my summer, not hanging out with my friends, I don't go out, i don't work, because i want to spend time with her, buy her back to school clothes and this is how he treats me!?
on top of that they don't even say sorry or explain why they left for so long! and my dad comes drunk as hell with this dumb lady expecting her to come in my moms house while she's away at work?!!!! wth, no way!!! then my lame @$$ neighbor comes out thinking like he owns the places and says" are you serious?" & i was jst like, yes mind your own business and he replies, well your makin it my business and talks about being respectful. BS @$$WIPE get in ur house and sleep b/c i don't complain about you and you're lame band who TRY and play loud ugly music every week in ur garage!!!! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!
with all that ending, my sister and her lame low life bf leave with my niece yelling at her saying its her fault blah blah blah. and they still have my clothes they haven't returned to me, and my sandals! NONE OF THEM APOLOGIZE TO ME, they just leave like the cowards they are! oh and did i mention that my sisters lame bf tries to march in my house saying "oh i'm not scared of those people, give me karina!" i was just like "ur the one who left ur daughter w/o saying anything to any of us!" then i slammed the door on his ugly face!
man, it just sickens me how they take advantage of my kindness and walk all over me, they are so disrespectful and they're older than me!!!! both of my so called siblings are over 30!!! wth...i am saying this without regret...i no longer have siblings. I did have 1 sister, but she died in 2002. She was the only real sister I had.
On top of all this mess they created for me, my parents are far from married, not even together, my mom is going camping w/o me, she's never home, she;s always working and my dad is probably with that lame @$$ lady he tried to bring over. I am pretty much on my own here.
Sorry for the long rant, but you know...my real issue isn't even about the kids staying with me because I love them, i'm their aunt and i don't mind taking care of them. it's the fact that their low life parents leave out of nowhere not telling me where they're going or asking if i had any plans that day and if i could watch the kids for a few hours. and i know what they went out to do or smoke or drink drugs, whatever! i just know that's what they did and they even had my baby nephew with them!
They are never allowed in this house again and they can no longer seek help from me or advice. i am done with them, i don't care if this is mean, but i've had it with them..they've been taking advantage of me for too long and the other night was the last straw.
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