[stellargirl9]

Originally Posted by Ricci

ohh no worries we know u dint mean too
read the rules though when u have the time

i will . and i cant wait to be in a better frame of mind to start posting about more fun things like make up!

[Jessica]

Originally Posted by stellargirl9

ps- that pic of you and your man is fabulous!

Thanks so much hun

[pinksugar]

hun, all I will say, is that I agree with Maysie. If he knows this whole thing will upset you, and he still did it - especially if you have 'issues' - then he really isn't thinking about your feelings.

Someone who knows you have boundaries and still pushes them, and then kind of indicates that 'your problems' are what have caused him to act this way - even if it's only in a vague way - sounds kind of manipulative, and wouldn't have any problems lying about what he's been doing. As it's been said, you wouldn't have known about the email unless he hadn't accidentally sent it to you.

That being said, if you've thought hard and want to give him another chance, then all the best and I hope everything works out for you

[beautyforashes]

Often times, we answer our own questions. You already know the answer to your cry for help because the answer is right in front of you. The fact that you feel the need to check his email says a lot about where the relationship is headed. Without trust your relationship will be ruined. Trust me...I am experienced in this subject. In fact, I broke up with my boyfriend recently and everyday I ask God to give me the strength I need to endure. I kept trying to make a puzzle fit that had all the wrong pieces. Make sure that this guy is worth the unnecessary stress and that he is worth your valuable time. Peace!

[Saje]

I still dont like the fact that this whole situations is being turned around by him to put the blame on you. Like its your fault your feelings of jealousy are the reason why you two are in this predicament. Seems to me like your guy has a great way with words and knows how to manipulate your love for him to his advantage.

Sorry if that is harsh but I call it as I see it.

[AprilRayne]

Originally Posted by Saje

I still dont like the fact that this whole situations is being turned around by him to put the blame on you. Like its your fault your feelings of jealousy are the reason why you two are in this predicament. Seems to me like your guy has a great way with words and knows how to manipulate your love for him to his advantage.

Sorry if that is harsh but I call it as I see it.

I totally agree! My ex was the same way! Very manipulative with words and everything was always my fault!!

[MissMissy]

I think there needs to be some serious damage control. all i gotta say is if he is asking this girl to go to the movies instead of you then he is wanting this to become something. If i where you i would draw some lines. YOU or her. As *****y as that sounds, doing that will get you some serious answers instead of sitting around letting this destroy you. walk out with some pride and dignity girl.