[Dragonfly]

Listen my dear, you are not nothing. What you are is free of a jerk.
He is her problem . And guess what, eventually he will be another girl's problem.
Ricci said it very well - young men take forever to mature. You might think you are dating a teenager. But in reality you are dating a boy in the body of a teenager.

Keep on being strong, let us know what's going on. Have you spoiled yourself with a facial or blowout?

Big hugs to you honey!

[Jesskaa]

Well i got my hair done.

[Maysie]

Sometimes the easiest way to get over someone is to totally cut off any type of contact or reminder of them...delete him off your myspace, block his email address, and do whatever it takes to not remind you of him (on purpose anyway). Because everyone is right, he's not worth your time! Whenever I have to remove someone from my life, or have someone leave mine, I try to keep busy and go out with friends. Just focus on yourself, and whenever you get those thoughts creeping up that tell you to call him or start feeling sad about the memories, instead think about all of the bad qualities he has and the mean things he's done to you, and eventually anger will take over, and before you know it you won't even care about him! Hope you feel better soon!!

[Dragonfly]

Maysie - great advice!

I'm glad to hear you did something nice for yourself. There's an old song that goes: "I'm gonna wash that man right outta my hair". Keep spoling yourself, re arrange your furniture, anything to signify a new start.

[polaroidscene]

My mom says this a lot but they dont get any better once they get older they are still immature.....and guy do tend to say things they dont mean to make ya feel better...cause they just aren't smart and they take the easy way out of things. But im glad that you are being strong.

[Jesskaa]

well, i took him off number one of my myspace. and he isn't on my top anymore.
and then, i blocked him on aim so, that way.. i'll never know if he's online.
i already trashed out all my pictures and everything.. and yeah, im trying.

i just wanna call so badly, like.. i know i try and think of everything bad, but it doesn't always make the want go away. when i get sad, i think of how it could be worse, and it kinda helps. but not really.

I feel good, that i haven't talked to him.
but i miss my friend. and thats not comming back.

[CellyCell]

Remember, you're only what - 14?
You're young, you'll bounce back.
To be blunt and honest - it's only Myspace.
Top placement isn't everything. And you're best off not contacting him for some time - trust me, the more you try to get into contact with him, the more likely he'll disappoint and if you want his friendship back, it ain't gonna happen overnight. You gotta get past the feeling that you still really "love" him in order to become friends again. Helped me - even though there might be a bit of emotional baggage with becoming friends with your exes.
But he really screwed you over so I don't see why you would.

[Jesskaa]

...well bouncing back isn't fun.

tonight, was reallu hard. I don't know why, but everything i did reminded me of him.
i never gave in and called though. I guess, that's good.
but, i did cry.. and i cried a lot..
but i was also tired, and im stressed.
i hate this.