[Dragonfly]

I'm not interested in any man that:

treats my son poorly
is abusive
treats women with little/no respect
has poor hygiene
expects someone else to take care of him
is irresponsible with money
has a substance abuse problem

There's a few others - all I can think of for now.

[Darla_G]

Originally Posted by brewgrl

who is part of a Renaissance Guild or attends Sci-Fi Conventions

well Jen, that is really specific there, past experience?

[La_Mari]

Everything you guys mentioned, mostly:

smokes & doesn't appreciate me and what I do for him.
And the metro thing bugs me, not in general, but not for me to date.
Also, one that waxes his chest, ugh.
drugs are a big deal, I despise them!

[Annia]

So, what is a metro?

[Aprill]

metrosexual: heterosexual men with a strong concern for their appearance, or whose lifestyles display attributes stereotypically seen among gay men. Debate surrounds the term's use as a theoretical signifier of gender deconstruction and its associations with consumerism.

[Shelley]

I Can't Date A Man Who/Is...

Abusive and controlling
Drug user/past drug user
Alcoholic
Disrespectful to others
Doesn't like animals
Criminal/former criminal
Smokes
Racist
Cheats
Snobby
Freeloader
Poor hygiene
Shows zero affection
Has long hair

[makeupwhore54]

Someone who's always looking at other girls(I expect it some but not 24/7)
Someone who lies & cheats.
Oh and I agree with the gold teeth or grillz.

I'm pretty laid backk too cos I need a boyfriend. I hate being alone, and I feel like it's always going to be like this


If I ever find someone, I'm sure I'll be able to add to the list.

[tyarishanese]

*doesn't believe in GOD
*racist
*Narcissistic/ cocky *****

[Annia]

Originally Posted by Aprill

metrosexual: heterosexual men with a strong concern for their appearance, or whose lifestyles display attributes stereotypically seen among gay men. Debate surrounds the term's use as a theoretical signifier of gender deconstruction and its associations with consumerism.

Wow! I am such a goober. I know what metrosexual is; it just didn't connect that "metro" was also "metrosexual" lol.

[aney]

-smokes
- is an idiot!

[blueangel1023]

-lies/cheats
-immature
-has bad hygiene
-flakey

[pretty_pink13]

I can't date a man who

isn't funny
smokes
treats me bad
has bad teeth
isn't loving/caring
does drugs
is lazy
orders me around
lies
cheats
IS SHY
can't get along with the family
isn't educated
has no job
doesn't love me

wow I can go on forever oh someone who is shorter than me and looks like I could protect him. lol. I know there is more, but these are the main ones.

[perlanga]

Great post!

Me

Is stuck on his ex
Has kids
is a manwhore
has an std
caan't work things out
is very unattractive
wife beater
was married before
uses drugs
cannot except my religion
doesn't think I'm the greatest thing on Earth : )

[Aquilah]

I no longer have this worry since I'm married, but I would have said... First and foremost, sick as this is: I can't see myself having sex with! Seriously!

Other than that:

Does drugs
Sleeps around/cheats
Abuses in any sense, shape or form

I'm sure there's more, but my brain isn't working well enough to think of them all.

[magneticheart]

I Can't Date A Man Who...
-Smokes/Does drugs
-Sleeps around
-Is abusive
-Boasts about everything about himself
-Has no sense of humour
-Is lots shorter than me (This is very much an insecurity thing on my part. I'm embarrassed about my height so I prefer to date someone taller than me or at least the same size, I wouldn't mind a little bit shorter but not too much because I feel like that would draw unnessecary attention to my height)
-Is too clingy
-Arrogant
-Loves himself WAY too much.