[Adrienne]

Originally Posted by perlanga

Yeah my boyfriend can get so damn irritable and angry as well as jealous sometimes so I know how you feel, it's calmed down a bit through the years, but occasionally he'll act like that. We both grew up in traditional homes, so I know how it is, and don't really think about it too much. My dad and brothers are the same way. I usually just tell my bf to calm down and ask him what he's worried about. It's usually something stupid he's angry at. I honestly think if you have a quiet ,calm , and honest conversation about what he's being bothered with, everything will be fine.

I've tried to talk to him about it but he always makes it seem like its my fault. Another problem he has is he likes letting me make all the decision which is okay with me but when something goes wrong he blames me for everything. What, am i always supposed to be right?! All in all, its a lot of small things that are leading to these bigger problems but at the end of the day, it started with his jealousy (even before he cheated, i noticed since month one but was young and naive) and unfortunately it'll probably lead to the end as well.