[StereoXGirl]

It sounds like he was speaking out of anger/frustration (possibly incited by his friends), and probably didn't actually mean what he said.

I think it's fine to sell the Wii. Maybe you could contact the Aunt and see if maybe there will be a time when she's closer to you that you could return it to her (if he doesn't come pick it up)?

Good luck!

[Nick007]

Buy wii fit and work out with it! Umm...do you have like a craigslist over there, you can sell it and not worry about shipping or ebay fees. His other stuff box it up, leave it outside give him a deadline and if it's still there, trash it.

[Tony-admin]

We have the wii fit, it rocks!

[Dragonfly]

In case he doesn't want to meet you, can one of your friends or family members give him the aunt's scanner? I think it would be a mistake to keep it or throw it out.
Otherwise, make sure you have something in writing that he doesn't want the rest of the stuff.
I have to agree that even the best breakups fall into the ditch, when possessions have to be sorted.

Best of luck Rosie. Big hugs hun.

[Johnnie]

I don't think you should've gotten so upset with the fact he changed his mind. Just sell it and like Ashley said, don't send a link letting him know. Just get it done with.

[SqueeKee]

If you decide to sell it lemme know how much you want for it! My hubby and I have been dying to buy a wii for ages

[pinksugar]

lol Kee, I think the shipping would be pretty outrageous...


Well he picked up the stuff. And I will be selling the wii. I'm still feeling uncomfortable about this whole thing though.. I just feel like there are unfinished strings and I don't like it. I wanted it wrapped up all neatly and I don't feel like it has been

it will be good to get away this weekend!

JMG, looking back I totally agree with you, I think it was just the way that he told me that really upset me, and him being so rude. I rethought it and I'm not happy with how it was handled

[KatJ]

I don't think you over-reacted at all. Obviously since he was around his friends the testosterone level was above what should be legal. But the fact that he had the balls to actually say those things to you, makes him a jerk. Don't feel bad just because he was having a bad day. I'm glad he got his stuff, I hope ya'll can just break it all off now.

[speerrituall1]

Mail the scanner certified to the aunt and sell the Wii. Good luck!

[CellyCell]

Ugh, skank exes acting up because of their skank friends. Those are the worst!

Feel better, Rosers. Go get some Starbucks before they close a location near ya.
Sell the Wii and enjoy your freeeeedom. Eventually, skank face will be calling you and appologizing and yadiyada because that's a skank's nature to do so.

[Bec688]

Guys become mindless morons when they are with their friends, but that does not excuse the way he spoke to you or the names he called you, he doesn't even deserve for you to give him the time of day after that.

You have done nothing wrong, you haven't over reacted and you shouldn't feel bad about this at all. I agree with the others girls and think you should try and sell the Wii. The postage to send the scanner will probably be pricey, but it may just be worth it, it'd give you peace of mind and you won't have something that is keeping you "attached" to him.

[S. Lisa Smith]

Originally Posted by pinksugar

Well he picked up the stuff. Good, then you don't have to mess with it in any way! And I will be selling the wii. Good.I'm still feeling uncomfortable about this whole thing though.. I just feel like there are unfinished strings and I don't like it. Unfortunately that is the nature of real relationships. I wanted it wrapped up all neatly and I don't feel like it has been Most of the time that doesn't happen. Only in the movies!

it will be good to get away this weekend! You will feel better in a few days, take two Fosters and call me in the morning

JMG, looking back I totally agree with you, I think it was just the way that he told me that really upset me, and him being so rude. I rethought it and I'm not happy with how it was handled

You will find someone better, perhaps even someone who has a girl bunny for Willum.

[Ray of sunshine]

About the scanner- ask the aunt when she will be in town next and ask if that would be an okay to return her scanner to her. Good luck, sorry about the nasty ex.

[sweetnsexy6953]

Aww I'm sorry Rosie that hes such an ass. You dont deserve this. No one does. I hope you can move on from this and find someone a lot better than him. You are smart, pretty, friendly and an awesome person so it wont be hard to find someone. I hope you are handling everything ok.