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Sometimes when we are out my boyfriend and I will go to buy things and he always says he"ll pay for my stuff too and I always say no. Or if he goes into a store to get something he asks if I want something and I always say no then too. One day when this happened he asked me why i never let him buy me things and I said its ok I can pay for my own stuff.
I'm not sure if I am doing the right thing by telling him no when he asks or should I just graciously accept when he offers. I don't want to continue saying no if it is making him feel less manly? Although I pat sometimes, I do let him pay most the time when we go to dinners or movies.
Any thoughts?
I'm not sure if I am doing the right thing by telling him no when he asks or should I just graciously accept when he offers. I don't want to continue saying no if it is making him feel less manly? Although I pat sometimes, I do let him pay most the time when we go to dinners or movies.
Any thoughts?