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So I'm bullied a lot and I just need some advice on how to deal with it. I'm a teen so it really hits me crucially :/. Do any of you have any advice?
Originally Posted by Dragonfly /img/forum/go_quote.gif
Of course you want to tell your parents or teacher - an authority figure
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If someone tried to bully me, I'd punch them in the mouth...
The moment you let anyone try to control or manipulate you, that is the moment they will do it relentlessly until you stand up for your self.
You might get a whooping but you will also get their respect.
By the way - have the confrontation OFF school grounds. The last thing you want is to get suspended just because you stood up for yourself.
.Originally Posted by Darla /img/forum/go_quote.gif
You know no parents want their children to get into a physical altercation. The reality is sometimes as a kid you need to stand up to your bully. I know i did that in 7th grade and as Carolyn said after he saw I would stand up to him, he never bothered me after that.
But Divadoll I am surprised you would ask someone else advice about your child?
If you were still experiencing a problem that's what I would have suggested to you. Talk to the parents. A 6 year is hopefully going to listen to their parents especially if some older boy is going to retaliate against her if her bad behaviour continues. I am glad you were able to resolve your son's problems for him.Originally Posted by divadoll /img/forum/go_quote.gif
Carolyn wrote she would have punched the bully. I asked her how would she have responded to a bully who was a 6 year old girl and the victim was a 12 year old boy. Some things are not cut and dry. We did resolve this issue without a hitch as this happened over a year ago and the little girl was talked to. I was more worried that this girl would become violent towards my daughter because she was the true focus of this disturbed girl's hatred.
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