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I need some advice on an issue. Maybe some of you MUT girls will be able to help!! Whenever I'm meeting people I don't know for the first time almost always the comment arises from someone, "oh you're so shy!", or "are you shy?" The fact is that when I'm around people I don't know for the first time I'm not going to be loud or outgoing and I tend to stay guarded but not in an obnoxious way. I still make eye contact and smile, so I don't understand why people are constantly bringing up my shyness. I want to change whatever people are percieving me to do that would make them think I'm shy. Cause I'm not an extremely shy person, I'm very much loud and outgoing around my friends and family.Any tips on how to act in a group of people I don't know and not come across as shy? Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated.