Advice

I don't know who to talk to about my relationship with me ex. It's really messed up everything has happened these past four years and I really need some professional advice or just someone to talk to in private. I want to know if anyone else has been in a destructive relationship with a narcissist. I think my ex is one but i'm not for sure so if I could compare my story with someone who knows that would really help me to know I did the right thing by cutting the ties between him and I once and for all.

You can PM me if you'd like! 

Relationships with self destructive people are REALLY hard. I used to be one, to be completely honest. I've been through a lot of therapy (and I'm open to talking about it now), but it definitely wasn't an easy problem to over come.

It's tough... I feel for you!!!

I made a video about being friends with an ex not too long ago... I think it might help! Good luck! 

I recommend that you talk with your physician and see if they can refer you to a qualified social worker.

You need a professional to help you work through issues regarding your ex.

I would bet $100 that my father is a narcissist. He is now 70 and is the very same as if he were 20.

Always remember that a narcissist's behaviour has got nothing to do with you and that they have a personality disorder.

The only way they will ever change is when they recognize the pain they have caused to others and are willing to learn new behaviours.

Best of luck.