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Barbie2
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so .... I thought me and my best friend were cool until recently when I basically asked her in a voicemail if she wanted to hangout and I explained the details about going out over voicemail because she never picked up her phone so I sent her a text about it too so she knew about it two ways through voicemail and text.She never responded to me like ever the event happened and the day of I was super pissed about her ignoring me at least thats what I think happened because no response its been three weeks and she still has not called or texted me or apologized or anything nothing what would you do ?
I should also explain that on friday before the hangout which would of been on a saturday but I never went because someone didnt get back to me. I left her a very angry text saying I dont treat my friends like sh**t and I dont wanna talk but least I told you I had a problem with you and I dont wanna talk to you for a while basically I said she hurt my feelings in a voicemail and the text was like eff you but in the voicemail I was like if you didnt wanna go you could of just told me or said you had plans or said something if u had an issue with me you should of talked to me I think I was only angry in the text which to me is justified after the fact she ignored me completely.Am I over reacted or is my friend a total a$$ ?
What should I do ? or what would you do I already tried talking to her and multiple times like I said tried to confront the issue but no response ...
To make matters worse my birthdays coming up and every yr for her b day I seriously went all out bought her gifts made her gifts cards the works I would go all out for her and it actually pisses me off shes doing this very close to an important special day for me that can potentially be ruined by her actions.Also we went out twice like last month and she never acted like she had a problem with me and this was totally out of the blue.I thought we were cool.
Also last time we talked on the phone she was rude to me but for no legit reason I was sick and answered the phone and she said oh I didnt wanna talk to you I was trying to call someone else I just wanted to see if my phone worked ? um yeah it works your a real piece of work but of course I never said anything to her about that even though that was effin rude as hell .
I should also explain that on friday before the hangout which would of been on a saturday but I never went because someone didnt get back to me. I left her a very angry text saying I dont treat my friends like sh**t and I dont wanna talk but least I told you I had a problem with you and I dont wanna talk to you for a while basically I said she hurt my feelings in a voicemail and the text was like eff you but in the voicemail I was like if you didnt wanna go you could of just told me or said you had plans or said something if u had an issue with me you should of talked to me I think I was only angry in the text which to me is justified after the fact she ignored me completely.Am I over reacted or is my friend a total a$$ ?
What should I do ? or what would you do I already tried talking to her and multiple times like I said tried to confront the issue but no response ...
To make matters worse my birthdays coming up and every yr for her b day I seriously went all out bought her gifts made her gifts cards the works I would go all out for her and it actually pisses me off shes doing this very close to an important special day for me that can potentially be ruined by her actions.Also we went out twice like last month and she never acted like she had a problem with me and this was totally out of the blue.I thought we were cool.
Also last time we talked on the phone she was rude to me but for no legit reason I was sick and answered the phone and she said oh I didnt wanna talk to you I was trying to call someone else I just wanted to see if my phone worked ? um yeah it works your a real piece of work but of course I never said anything to her about that even though that was effin rude as hell .
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