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Well today me and my boyfriend had a really honest talk..i asked him if hes happy with me, he told me that he is, but sometimes he feels like he cant be himself around me and that makes him unhappy.
I asked him why or how i make him feel this way.
He told me its because i take everything to personally.
Like when he's making jokes,
Hes usually making jokes about girls like sucking his you know what, and other things of the liking, and like,i know hes joking, and i dont take it personally. But i want to come up with a funny comeback or something so i think, and then i cant come up with anything, so i end up just saying okay.. or not answering in time. And he told me it makes him feel stupid. And i explained myself, and i told him that i never have any intentions on making him feel stupid, and he told me that he does though.
I honestly.. dont really know what to do..
And then, he started a whole new thingie,
about saying that he thinks we're too different to work out..
And i said, "We aren't that different.. but i think aslong as we love eachother, and are willing to make this relationship work, then that's all that matters.." And he said "yah but i guess its just about you being so shy.." which i am, im super shy. And i have to meet his friends, and im too shy to, and im scared to too..
I hate stupid argument thingies like this. I like the fast that we're honest with eachother though.
Im afraid that he'll soon dump me because of the way he feels.
Like i never feel like that around him, it's always about me making him feel a certain negative way..
I honestly dont know what to do..
Helppp ?
I asked him why or how i make him feel this way.
He told me its because i take everything to personally.
Like when he's making jokes,
Hes usually making jokes about girls like sucking his you know what, and other things of the liking, and like,i know hes joking, and i dont take it personally. But i want to come up with a funny comeback or something so i think, and then i cant come up with anything, so i end up just saying okay.. or not answering in time. And he told me it makes him feel stupid. And i explained myself, and i told him that i never have any intentions on making him feel stupid, and he told me that he does though.
I honestly.. dont really know what to do..
And then, he started a whole new thingie,
about saying that he thinks we're too different to work out..
And i said, "We aren't that different.. but i think aslong as we love eachother, and are willing to make this relationship work, then that's all that matters.." And he said "yah but i guess its just about you being so shy.." which i am, im super shy. And i have to meet his friends, and im too shy to, and im scared to too..
I hate stupid argument thingies like this. I like the fast that we're honest with eachother though.
Im afraid that he'll soon dump me because of the way he feels.
Like i never feel like that around him, it's always about me making him feel a certain negative way..
I honestly dont know what to do..
Helppp ?