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As most of you know by now, my parents are getting divorced. In our lounge room we have a lot of family photos on display and I have been finding it difficult to look at all these happy snap family photos during this time, so I took them down.
My grandmother (Mum's Mum) has come to stay for a few days and she took all the photos I had taken down and put them back up. So I took them back down again. When she realised they were gone, she started going off at me, telling me this isn't my house and I don't have the right to move/re decorate my mothers things.
I told her to back off and I don't want the photos up and she needs to mind her own business. She then has the audacity to tell me this is between my Dad and my Mum and I am being ridiculous about the whole thing and it doesn't affect me. WHAT THE ****!!!
She also thinks I have too much to say on this divorce and I need to keep my mouth shut. This is coming from queen I'll poke my nose into everyones business without asking.
This divorce doesn't only affect my Mum, it affects the whole family, and I am part of the family, and if taking down family photos helps me cope, then I will do it. My Mum doesn't mind that I have done that, but I have just had my grandma flip out at me for doing it and telling me this divorce is none of my business, but apparently it's hers.
I can't stand my grandmother at the best of times, right now I feel like ringing her neck. She has done nothing but aggravate the situation since she has been here. She still thinks she can tell my mother what to do and thinks because she is staying here she can run our house how she sees fit.
My mother has never stood up to her Mum in her life, she has always let her mother trample all over her, in my grandmothers eyes my Mum is still a child, she will never be a "woman". Mum sat there and let my grandmother rip me to shreds then I got in trouble for going off at my grandmother, granted I did use a few curse words in there, but I couldn't believe I was the one getting in trouble when my grandmother had no right to say those things to me.
I left the room and I heard my Mum telling my grandmother to leave me alone and if I need to do that to help me cope than so be it, my grandmother told my Mum to stop being ridiculous and that I am being childish and stupid.
All I did was take down a few photos. Is what I have done really that bad?
My grandmother (Mum's Mum) has come to stay for a few days and she took all the photos I had taken down and put them back up. So I took them back down again. When she realised they were gone, she started going off at me, telling me this isn't my house and I don't have the right to move/re decorate my mothers things.
I told her to back off and I don't want the photos up and she needs to mind her own business. She then has the audacity to tell me this is between my Dad and my Mum and I am being ridiculous about the whole thing and it doesn't affect me. WHAT THE ****!!!
She also thinks I have too much to say on this divorce and I need to keep my mouth shut. This is coming from queen I'll poke my nose into everyones business without asking.
This divorce doesn't only affect my Mum, it affects the whole family, and I am part of the family, and if taking down family photos helps me cope, then I will do it. My Mum doesn't mind that I have done that, but I have just had my grandma flip out at me for doing it and telling me this divorce is none of my business, but apparently it's hers.
I can't stand my grandmother at the best of times, right now I feel like ringing her neck. She has done nothing but aggravate the situation since she has been here. She still thinks she can tell my mother what to do and thinks because she is staying here she can run our house how she sees fit.
My mother has never stood up to her Mum in her life, she has always let her mother trample all over her, in my grandmothers eyes my Mum is still a child, she will never be a "woman". Mum sat there and let my grandmother rip me to shreds then I got in trouble for going off at my grandmother, granted I did use a few curse words in there, but I couldn't believe I was the one getting in trouble when my grandmother had no right to say those things to me.
I left the room and I heard my Mum telling my grandmother to leave me alone and if I need to do that to help me cope than so be it, my grandmother told my Mum to stop being ridiculous and that I am being childish and stupid.
All I did was take down a few photos. Is what I have done really that bad?