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Hey everyone. I'm really stressed out and in bit of a situation. I just wanted some advice or see if anyone could explain to me better what this means.
Long story short my ex boyfriend is away in a rehab center in abother state. He's been in and out of treatment centers for almost a year now. We had an apartment that we were both living in and i moved out over a year ago however we remained friends and I've been looking after him since he's been battling his drug addiction. His family hasnt been there and have been no help to me at all. Heres the thing. He's being evicted from his apartment. Their is a court hearing scheduled. I am NOT living in the apartment and havent in over a year. just been stopping by here and there to check on him or do things for him. while hes been in rehab ive been over there cleaning and getting his mail also taking care of things like handling his money and paying the rent and bills for him. He was the applicant on the lease and his parents co-signed for him to get it. I was listed on there I believe as an occupant. They knew i was a student at the time and would be living there but i didnt want to be responsible for the apartment if we had ever spilt up or anything so i wanted a key and all so i was an occupant but never had my credit or anything ran.
Well I've been completely alone to deal with this. Moving him out of the apartment. I have had no help. I had to sell the furniture just to get it moved out. I am drained emmotionally. Just dealing with an addict takes its toll on you. I picked up his mail today and got the letter from court about his eviction hearing and it states to him "& all other occupants" I am now really worried that this will effect me because i am on the lease as an occupant but not as the owner applicant. I honestly have no energy or the time and money to attend a court hearing that has nothing to do with me. He's away getting treatment theres no way he'll be able to make it. I just wanted to move everything out for him and be done with it. I'm living back with my parents now I never changed my license address or my address I havent been living there. The landlord knows that I havent been living there that i've just been paying his rent for him (with his money) and picking his mail up. I'm so upset because if they try to come after me for this my credit will be completely ruined and i will never be able to get a mortgage or rent. for an eviction that i had nothing to do with or had no control over.
I guess I'm just looking for advice on this. Can anyone tell me if they think I will take a hit for this? I'm so worried about it i cant eat or sleep or even think about anything else. like I said I am on the lease I believe as an occupant but I'm not an applicant. It was his aparmtnet not mine. I just want this explained to me better and advice.
Thank you for the help
Long story short my ex boyfriend is away in a rehab center in abother state. He's been in and out of treatment centers for almost a year now. We had an apartment that we were both living in and i moved out over a year ago however we remained friends and I've been looking after him since he's been battling his drug addiction. His family hasnt been there and have been no help to me at all. Heres the thing. He's being evicted from his apartment. Their is a court hearing scheduled. I am NOT living in the apartment and havent in over a year. just been stopping by here and there to check on him or do things for him. while hes been in rehab ive been over there cleaning and getting his mail also taking care of things like handling his money and paying the rent and bills for him. He was the applicant on the lease and his parents co-signed for him to get it. I was listed on there I believe as an occupant. They knew i was a student at the time and would be living there but i didnt want to be responsible for the apartment if we had ever spilt up or anything so i wanted a key and all so i was an occupant but never had my credit or anything ran.
Well I've been completely alone to deal with this. Moving him out of the apartment. I have had no help. I had to sell the furniture just to get it moved out. I am drained emmotionally. Just dealing with an addict takes its toll on you. I picked up his mail today and got the letter from court about his eviction hearing and it states to him "& all other occupants" I am now really worried that this will effect me because i am on the lease as an occupant but not as the owner applicant. I honestly have no energy or the time and money to attend a court hearing that has nothing to do with me. He's away getting treatment theres no way he'll be able to make it. I just wanted to move everything out for him and be done with it. I'm living back with my parents now I never changed my license address or my address I havent been living there. The landlord knows that I havent been living there that i've just been paying his rent for him (with his money) and picking his mail up. I'm so upset because if they try to come after me for this my credit will be completely ruined and i will never be able to get a mortgage or rent. for an eviction that i had nothing to do with or had no control over.
I guess I'm just looking for advice on this. Can anyone tell me if they think I will take a hit for this? I'm so worried about it i cant eat or sleep or even think about anything else. like I said I am on the lease I believe as an occupant but I'm not an applicant. It was his aparmtnet not mine. I just want this explained to me better and advice.
Thank you for the help