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My hubby and I are moving out of our apartment within the week, so I have been working like mad to get the apartment cleaned up. I have made a check list and placed it on the fridge so that as we complete things that need to be done, we can check them off. My husband has been totally ignoring the list. I've asked him a few times to do certain tasks, but he won't do it he just says that it's good enough.
I'm starting to get frustrated because when we got married we never really agreed on who does which chores except that he would do the laundry, and I would do the folding. So it started off with him doing the laundry and me doing everything else, and now he has stopped doing the laundry as well. Every time I call him on something, or ask him to clean something up he never does. Since he doesn't do anything when I ask him to I've tried being passive aggressive and leaving the washroom or something until he'll notice it's dirty and clean it up, but it seems that he never notices so I end up cleaning it anyways.
He hasn't vacuumed, mopped a floor, dusted, cleaned a bathroom or anything else in about 4 months. I have allergies, so I am quite a neat freak and do have high standards of cleanliness, but it's either that or I can't breath.
Sorry for the long rant, I just had to get the 'anger' out of me before I go talk to my hubby again. I don't want to freak out at him, but I'm going to try explaining again why we have to clean up the apartment for the next tenant if we want to get our damage deposit back. Maybe I'll be able to at least convince him to clean all the light fixtures, then I won't have to deal with all the dead bugs.
I'm starting to get frustrated because when we got married we never really agreed on who does which chores except that he would do the laundry, and I would do the folding. So it started off with him doing the laundry and me doing everything else, and now he has stopped doing the laundry as well. Every time I call him on something, or ask him to clean something up he never does. Since he doesn't do anything when I ask him to I've tried being passive aggressive and leaving the washroom or something until he'll notice it's dirty and clean it up, but it seems that he never notices so I end up cleaning it anyways.
He hasn't vacuumed, mopped a floor, dusted, cleaned a bathroom or anything else in about 4 months. I have allergies, so I am quite a neat freak and do have high standards of cleanliness, but it's either that or I can't breath.
Sorry for the long rant, I just had to get the 'anger' out of me before I go talk to my hubby again. I don't want to freak out at him, but I'm going to try explaining again why we have to clean up the apartment for the next tenant if we want to get our damage deposit back. Maybe I'll be able to at least convince him to clean all the light fixtures, then I won't have to deal with all the dead bugs.