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So i posted a thread about needing an outfit for a second date. Well the second date has to be reschedualed because my date doesnt get off of work till 7 am on wensday and has to be back by 7 am on thursday.
When he told me this i was not sure if he was trying to blow me off or not so i just told him that it was okay and that if he was intrested in going out some other time to let me know. He imediately told me that he definately wants to go out again but has to see what his work schedual is (he is on a rotating scheduale and he is a cop so he finds out his schedual for the next week a few days before).
Im confused because he keeps saying he really wants to take me on another date, but whenever i try to semi finalize plans he has an excuse. Mostly not knowing what his schedual will be. I have never dated a cop so i do not know if this is how things really are or if he is just unsure about wanting a date. I had asked him about the 12th since he will be back by than and will most likely have off after working so many days in a row and he said "ill have to see what my schedual is and i dont really like planing things that far in advanced"
So i decided to not contact him for a bit and see if he contacts me about the date, and than maybe call him in a week or so when he is back in the area and off from work.
Does that make sense, or would i be best to just forget about him completely? Plus the part about not making a plan a week in advanced seemed a bit like he may not be intrested in me, and will only ask me on the date if he doesnt find something better to do.
Am i just reading to far into this or should i just move on?
When he told me this i was not sure if he was trying to blow me off or not so i just told him that it was okay and that if he was intrested in going out some other time to let me know. He imediately told me that he definately wants to go out again but has to see what his work schedual is (he is on a rotating scheduale and he is a cop so he finds out his schedual for the next week a few days before).
Im confused because he keeps saying he really wants to take me on another date, but whenever i try to semi finalize plans he has an excuse. Mostly not knowing what his schedual will be. I have never dated a cop so i do not know if this is how things really are or if he is just unsure about wanting a date. I had asked him about the 12th since he will be back by than and will most likely have off after working so many days in a row and he said "ill have to see what my schedual is and i dont really like planing things that far in advanced"
So i decided to not contact him for a bit and see if he contacts me about the date, and than maybe call him in a week or so when he is back in the area and off from work.
Does that make sense, or would i be best to just forget about him completely? Plus the part about not making a plan a week in advanced seemed a bit like he may not be intrested in me, and will only ask me on the date if he doesnt find something better to do.
Am i just reading to far into this or should i just move on?