I don't know what to tell you. I would like to be sympathetic, but I cannot empathize with what must be going through your head right now. Yes, you are married. But you are still a woman, and if you are attracted to men, then you are attracted to men. However, the question is, do you subconciously seek further involvement with these other attractive men upon seeing them for the first time, or is it just mere "masculine appreciation"?
Gosh, I feel very ill-equipped to be handing out advice on this... maybe you should see a marriage counselor. Truthfully, you should have seen one before you were married, but now that the deed is done, try and sort yourself out with a professional.