If you have a Sally or a nail-specific store near you, you can get a dotting tool...but...have you tried bamboo skewers from the dollar store? I've heard a lot of people like those....I don't think a bobby pin would work well for me, either.
Thanks for watching ladies, i'm really glad that you guys liked it =] @jennfer3310: you can also try using a toothpick or a pen (without ink) as your dotting tool.. I think you'll have more control if you use a pen.. Hope this help! ^^