- Aug 23, 2004
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My ex husband was a control freak and abusive. I threw him out last year and he is in regular daily contact with our daughter. My mom , myself and daughter were meant to be going on a holiday today for a week and ex was taking us in his car as i dont have one. It was too short notice to get a train so we were relying on him to take us. I got a very nasty letter yesterday from his solicitor, first one i have had so far, siteing me in divorce proceedings . He has lied about his income and has turned it around and is saying he wants to divorce me on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour ! He was the abusive party and it took me years to pluck up the courage to get rid of him. Anyway, we didnt want to go away with him so we cancelled the break. My daughter is fine about it and so is my mom as neither wanted to go on a 4 hour car journey with this hanging in the air and we are going to Greece soon anyway. The point is, my ex is trying to say that its my fault and i have let our daughter down for not taking her and that i should have swallowed my pride and put up with it. What do you think ?