oh tony, were not going to have to get into an argument about your sizeist comment, are we? large people are people too! sure, its not healthy, and it might not be appealing to the eyes of some, but larger people are not inherently worth less as human beings than thin people. (not putting words in your mouth, just saying.)
i was always a chubby kid, and my aunt and grandmother have always let me know it in less than constructive ways. people who hear that theyre shit because theyre fat are up for some serious self esteem issues. they were so hard on me that i stopped eating for a year. of course, i got thin......and then i was praised. too bad i was pretty much dying.
i guess id just rather that large people not have to hear about how gross/bad/unpretty/whatever it is. i know this isnt realistic.