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Kage_sCupotea Yes ma'am...and I wasn't even shopping for him! LOL We'd both basically given up on "looking" for that someone - and just when we stopped looking, there we were for each other.
Actually, we were both moderators for a chatroom, and were "friends" (more like casual acquaintances) for close to 3 years. I had lost touch with him after quitting the chatroom do to concentrating on my senior year of college. Plus, I got tired of guys trying to flirt, and I wanted a *real* offline relationship. Then one day in April 2002, he IMed me on Yahoo messenger. He'd been chatting with a mutual friend of ours, who had given him my screenname. From that moment on, we were inseparable, so to speak - at least for the whole summer. (He was in Texas and I was in Florida.) We chatted every day, and grew closer. Turns out we both had crushes on each other for quite a while, but didn't think to act on them.
So, here's the timeline:
~We got back in touch in April 2002
~Chatted, phoned, and emailed the whole summer
~Met in person (at a chatter get-together in Dallas; we were a close-knit group) in the first week of August 2002
~He flew out to meet my parents and proposed at the end of August 2002, Labor Day weekend
~My parents and I spent Thanksgiving 2002 with his family
~I graduated from college December 2002
~We got married in January 2003
Whew! That's the long-story-short! And he is absolutely my very best friend, and we've been through so much together. I cannot imagine going through those things with anyone else - it's truly like we were made for each other. (Chime the "Awww's" - LOL)
Because we had been chat friends, we had established a decent friendship, and never sought romance, like on a singles site. (My friends and I tried those for fun in college - it just didn't work for us.)
Whew...I had found a thread here once where I planned to put our whole story. I hated typing it all so fast right now, but I'm off to bed shortly, and I knew I wouldn't have time this weekend to tell it.
And now, I do believe my pillow is calling me.
This story is amazing to me. It was like it was meant to be! Thanks for typing it out. I'll share mine with you next!Loved reading this. ty.
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