It's interesting how you can turn a neutral statement from MissLindaJean into an attack on me, Katy. This isn't an issue about me. I'm certain that it is so easy to turn it into a disgruntled member rant rather than a true concern for everyone in the community. This is why my post was moved from its original location.
It is an issue of a violation in TOS by a mod. If I thought it could be solved by PMing Tony, I would have done so. I was not the first to bring up the TOS regarding 'market research' another former mod Jeanarick had and others expressed their concern as well. As mods, we took and take the TOS very seriously and we policed ourselves just as sternly as we would any other member in hopes for a good community. I see our community crumbling and its members leaving because of inconsistencies and liberties being taking by a certain staff member. Mocking is not my intention as I would have done so at every opportunity.
Issues such as offensive racist posts such as the one in the BB cream thread that was locked then deleted and violations in TOS in a negatively skewed 'market research' poll to a company who is not an advertiser (that other mods were not aware of) should be addressed by everyone. We are all accountable in this community.
As for 'bite', the sting of true usually hurts. Pointing out the truth doesn't make everyone feel shitty, love. Pointing out the truth vindicates the feelings of many others in the community who would eventually just leave if those issues are not addressed.
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I have to agree with MissLindaJean.
As a member, I really am getting tired of the constant harassment that seems to be driven by divadoll. Why this couldn't have been taken directly to Director is beyond me since that we already know divadoll has no issue doing that is beyond me. The only thing I can think of is to publicaly mock Zadidoll yet again.
Frankly, I'm tired of it.
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Can we call a spade a spade? There seem to be ulterior motives behind a lot of the posting, from every which way and from many of us members.
Given the wording used by zadidoll in the "unhappy BB poll/sub thread" it didn't really look like a MUT survey. It fell into the violation, got closed down. I can't attest to the reasoning/motivation behind the creation like some have, because I didn't make it.
Divadoll, since you were a moderator, you should be able to answer your own q regarding violations/infractions on other mods. Speaking of accountability, there is extremely harsh choice of words and always a bite to your postings regarding zadidoll.
I could care less, I'm not #team zadi or #team diva, I can only say that as a member(since moderator status is really no elite thing and I don't use that as a means of power..it's not and shouldn't be..more of a headache at times
) the nitpicking and arguing all over the threads is a big Charlie Foxtrot. You all definitely know how to make conversations uncomfortable and really shitty for the community as a whole. Constructive criticism...see issues and problems, point them out..then make a suggestion to fix them..Don't just heckle and poke; it's not flattering and doesn't make anyone look good. No one benefits from it, not you peeps, me, other members or MUT in general. You're killing it for everyone.
I apologize for the bit of profanity, but the personal issues fall into dirty laundry and shouldn't be aired. IF
anyone has a valid concern/grievance that affects MUT, address it to whomever you need to and hopefully offer a solution you think would be fitting. Don't add to and be a part of the problem.