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So my boyfriend and I been together for 6 years living together for 3.
So far I've gotten along great with everyone in his family except his sister in law. I knew in the beginning of our relationship she didnt like me but she is the type of person that acts really nice to your face but then goes and talks about you behind your back and makes up lies about what she actually said and did. So first off years ago I found out from other people all the stuff she was saying about me from other people and I confronted her one night when we were all out. She told me that she just didnt like how i had long hair and wore alot of makeup and came out dressed up. So whatever we talked and everything was supposed to be cool. Well so many things have happened with this *****Since then. We're supposed to be cool she acts like shes my friend to my face when we're out together. Another incident was one night we all went to a club and there was a bouncer at the door (who by the way i've never seen in my life) and my boyfriends sister in law tells him the next day that the bouncer said he knew me and that he got my number (NOT TRUE) and she later admitted that she lied about it. Then I had a breast augmentation and she told someone new that was coming around that i had fake boobs that werent even in proportion to my body. So whatever i blew it off i could care less. Then one day i get a phone call from my boyfriend yelling at me about my myspace page and how his sister in law told him that i cut him out of pictures, im talking to guys and im in lingerie..... and 1 I have guys on my friends list but i only talk to guys that i actually KNOW and nothing is ever flirty or anything like that. 2 there is absolutely no pictures of me in lingerie posted on my myspace. 3 I cut my boyfriend out of one picture because he was extremely drunk and looked horrible in it...not to mention it says that i am in a relationship and there is other pictures of my boyfriend on my myspace. so i went BALISTIC! showed my boyfriend my page and he let it slide but then i was fed up. I ignored the sister in law for months and then one day she called me talking about her problems and i stopped her and asked her about the myspace incident...she lied of course and said that all she said was that i cut him out of a picture and tthat the only reason she said it was because its her brother in law and shes always gonna tell him stuff like that. So I told her fine whatever but next time if u have a problem call me up and tell me. So we have been FINE since then hanging out partying together and all. Then just this past weekend we went out to this bar and i had mentioned to her that I am cutting my hair and dying it blonde.
So Yesterday was my boyfriends moms birthday and my boyfriend called his mom and asked her what she was doing. She said nothing so after he got off the phone with her he called his brother and asked him what he was doing and the brother said "we're all goin out for moms birthday" So my boyfriend felt extremely hurt that we werent invited out. (this is NOT the 1st time that they have done this) So we started talking about how messed up it was and my boyfriend said that he went to his moms the night before and his mom was on the phone with the sister in law and heard the sister in law talking all kinds of crap on me about how im bleaching my hair blonde and laughing about it. Well at first i felt really hurt that obviously they were on the phone talking about me behind my back but now im am just pissed off. So last night when my boyfriend was telling his mom how messed up it was that we werent invited out i yelled "SHIT TALKERS!!!!!" in the backround and his mom said i heard what she said and hung up on him. I'm just really frustrated and wanna let them know that i really cannot stand them and that i know that they were talking about me. I'm just not sure how to go about it. I think it is really messed up because i have been nothing but nice to these people.
Another thing is I told my boyfriend before that he needs to stick up for me and tell his sister in law to shut her mouth but he never does and says that he cant because its his brothers wife and his nephews mother. But I feel like he needs to defend me especially since she has caused so many arguments between us and then admits later that she lied. My blood is boiling and i have just about had it...
Any advice on what i should do?
Sorry this is so long
So far I've gotten along great with everyone in his family except his sister in law. I knew in the beginning of our relationship she didnt like me but she is the type of person that acts really nice to your face but then goes and talks about you behind your back and makes up lies about what she actually said and did. So first off years ago I found out from other people all the stuff she was saying about me from other people and I confronted her one night when we were all out. She told me that she just didnt like how i had long hair and wore alot of makeup and came out dressed up. So whatever we talked and everything was supposed to be cool. Well so many things have happened with this *****Since then. We're supposed to be cool she acts like shes my friend to my face when we're out together. Another incident was one night we all went to a club and there was a bouncer at the door (who by the way i've never seen in my life) and my boyfriends sister in law tells him the next day that the bouncer said he knew me and that he got my number (NOT TRUE) and she later admitted that she lied about it. Then I had a breast augmentation and she told someone new that was coming around that i had fake boobs that werent even in proportion to my body. So whatever i blew it off i could care less. Then one day i get a phone call from my boyfriend yelling at me about my myspace page and how his sister in law told him that i cut him out of pictures, im talking to guys and im in lingerie..... and 1 I have guys on my friends list but i only talk to guys that i actually KNOW and nothing is ever flirty or anything like that. 2 there is absolutely no pictures of me in lingerie posted on my myspace. 3 I cut my boyfriend out of one picture because he was extremely drunk and looked horrible in it...not to mention it says that i am in a relationship and there is other pictures of my boyfriend on my myspace. so i went BALISTIC! showed my boyfriend my page and he let it slide but then i was fed up. I ignored the sister in law for months and then one day she called me talking about her problems and i stopped her and asked her about the myspace incident...she lied of course and said that all she said was that i cut him out of a picture and tthat the only reason she said it was because its her brother in law and shes always gonna tell him stuff like that. So I told her fine whatever but next time if u have a problem call me up and tell me. So we have been FINE since then hanging out partying together and all. Then just this past weekend we went out to this bar and i had mentioned to her that I am cutting my hair and dying it blonde.
So Yesterday was my boyfriends moms birthday and my boyfriend called his mom and asked her what she was doing. She said nothing so after he got off the phone with her he called his brother and asked him what he was doing and the brother said "we're all goin out for moms birthday" So my boyfriend felt extremely hurt that we werent invited out. (this is NOT the 1st time that they have done this) So we started talking about how messed up it was and my boyfriend said that he went to his moms the night before and his mom was on the phone with the sister in law and heard the sister in law talking all kinds of crap on me about how im bleaching my hair blonde and laughing about it. Well at first i felt really hurt that obviously they were on the phone talking about me behind my back but now im am just pissed off. So last night when my boyfriend was telling his mom how messed up it was that we werent invited out i yelled "SHIT TALKERS!!!!!" in the backround and his mom said i heard what she said and hung up on him. I'm just really frustrated and wanna let them know that i really cannot stand them and that i know that they were talking about me. I'm just not sure how to go about it. I think it is really messed up because i have been nothing but nice to these people.
Another thing is I told my boyfriend before that he needs to stick up for me and tell his sister in law to shut her mouth but he never does and says that he cant because its his brothers wife and his nephews mother. But I feel like he needs to defend me especially since she has caused so many arguments between us and then admits later that she lied. My blood is boiling and i have just about had it...
Any advice on what i should do?
Sorry this is so long
