ok this is what just happened to me or more like what I just found out. the whole thing started out great and turned out more than aweful. I´m gonna make this as short as i can and put it in chronological order
1. met this amazing guy in the US in Sept 04.
2. we fell in love with each other
3. spent the best 2 weeks of my life together
4. I went back to austria thinking I would never see him again
5. turned out I actually would see him again. he offered to pay for my ticket to come see him in Feb 05
6. I stayed completely faithful to him the whole time (without him asking me too.)
7. he said he did the same (now I´m not sure if I can still believe this)
8. I came over in Feb
9. first few days went GREAT
10. after that he sorta pulled away from me and kept him at distance emotionally
11. I caught him lying to me about one night. I spent the night at a friend´s house, he was SUPPOSED to spend the night at a different friend´s house too.
12. next day I wanted to borrow his digicam and looked through the pics on it. saw a pic of him in his apartment, dated the nite he was supposed to be somewhere else. looked like they had a party over there. there was also a pic of a girl on the camera, but she wasn´t very pretty so I wasn´t worried
13. I asked him about it and he tried to convince me that camera dated the pic wrong. I didn´t completely buy it but wasn´t suspicious b/c of the pic of that girl I wasn´t jealous
14. a week after that I went back to austria and before I left I wrote him a card saying I loved him
15. he didn´t call or e-mail me for 3 weeks
16. then he e-mails me and tells me he loves me too and asks me if we can be together in the future (he´s already left now. he just joined the army)
17. I am soo happy to hear this from him and start having all those ridiculous daydreams about marrying him and move over there after school (which I still probably will!!)
18. our mutual friend e-mails me that he proposed to his psycho ex girlfriend and they´re engaged now. he didn´t want her to tell me b/c "he doesn´t want me to get hurt"
what the F***????? I hate guys right now.
1. met this amazing guy in the US in Sept 04.
2. we fell in love with each other
3. spent the best 2 weeks of my life together
4. I went back to austria thinking I would never see him again
5. turned out I actually would see him again. he offered to pay for my ticket to come see him in Feb 05
6. I stayed completely faithful to him the whole time (without him asking me too.)
7. he said he did the same (now I´m not sure if I can still believe this)
8. I came over in Feb
9. first few days went GREAT
10. after that he sorta pulled away from me and kept him at distance emotionally
11. I caught him lying to me about one night. I spent the night at a friend´s house, he was SUPPOSED to spend the night at a different friend´s house too.
12. next day I wanted to borrow his digicam and looked through the pics on it. saw a pic of him in his apartment, dated the nite he was supposed to be somewhere else. looked like they had a party over there. there was also a pic of a girl on the camera, but she wasn´t very pretty so I wasn´t worried
13. I asked him about it and he tried to convince me that camera dated the pic wrong. I didn´t completely buy it but wasn´t suspicious b/c of the pic of that girl I wasn´t jealous
14. a week after that I went back to austria and before I left I wrote him a card saying I loved him
15. he didn´t call or e-mail me for 3 weeks
16. then he e-mails me and tells me he loves me too and asks me if we can be together in the future (he´s already left now. he just joined the army)
17. I am soo happy to hear this from him and start having all those ridiculous daydreams about marrying him and move over there after school (which I still probably will!!)
18. our mutual friend e-mails me that he proposed to his psycho ex girlfriend and they´re engaged now. he didn´t want her to tell me b/c "he doesn´t want me to get hurt"
what the F***????? I hate guys right now.