Originally Posted by Jennifer /img/forum/go_quote.gif i always say i wanna kill so and so and i wanna kick their ass, but i obviously never do. my fiance's said he wanted to do the same, but he could never hurt a fly. i'm not saying dismiss it completely, but keep your eyes and ears open. good luck! Same here, it's hard to tell for other people where thinking and saying such violent things ends and a wish to really act them out begins.