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hey minds.. the bf and I are similar to your situation, he thought I was a blanket hog and apparently I would chase him across the bed in my sleep trying to hug him and he'd fall out.
You just have to find ways around it - the bf sleeps on the inside now, so he cant fall out.
I know exactly how you feel about feeling lost and alone and everything. I think it sounds very much like he's just not used to it yet, and seriously, going from talking online and on the phone is a massive change from being in each other's beds every night, so I think you just have to allow yourself to feel sad if you want to, you're not crazy or silly or anything, and he isn't thinking less about you, he's just adjusting.
Maybe try to cut down the number of nights you stay there and see if he asks you over more, or just sleep over twice or 3 times until he's more used to everything.
Best of luck chicken, I would be worried if I were you too, but I really dont think theres anything going on, just adjustment issues.
You just have to find ways around it - the bf sleeps on the inside now, so he cant fall out.
I know exactly how you feel about feeling lost and alone and everything. I think it sounds very much like he's just not used to it yet, and seriously, going from talking online and on the phone is a massive change from being in each other's beds every night, so I think you just have to allow yourself to feel sad if you want to, you're not crazy or silly or anything, and he isn't thinking less about you, he's just adjusting.
Maybe try to cut down the number of nights you stay there and see if he asks you over more, or just sleep over twice or 3 times until he's more used to everything.
Best of luck chicken, I would be worried if I were you too, but I really dont think theres anything going on, just adjustment issues.