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So I was invited to my friend's neighbour's party tonight. Myself and three other people arrived really early. Me, my friend and three of his friends who I know, but are not really friends with went. While waiting for the party to begin, we sat at my friend's place just hanging out. The topic got to schools we went to. So my friend and one of his friends went to this particular school that is a very good school but majority black children attend. I just happened to be the only black person in the group (the others were caucasian, indian and chinese). They all decided to talk about two of them going to that particular school was sooo out of the ordinary as they are all so light skinned and that they never spoke to anyone in the school because of this....please bare in mind that they did a particular exam that placed them at that school.
At this point I am getting irked because it was sounding as though they were too good to go to that school because they were of a different complexion. Now at several gatherings with said bunch...I have heard similiar comments and I just let it slip, but this time, I it spoiled my mood. I decided to go take a breather and watch some tv in my friend's room. After a bit, I realised I felt the same way and I needed to leave. I asked my friend to drop me home and would tell him why later.
Maybe I over reacted. But I felt out of place as well, when I saw that the crowd was building up and I was the only black person in the crowd. After my little irk inside, I just felt totally out of place and needed to get out of there. I don't know how to broach this subject with my friend or what to say.
At this point I am getting irked because it was sounding as though they were too good to go to that school because they were of a different complexion. Now at several gatherings with said bunch...I have heard similiar comments and I just let it slip, but this time, I it spoiled my mood. I decided to go take a breather and watch some tv in my friend's room. After a bit, I realised I felt the same way and I needed to leave. I asked my friend to drop me home and would tell him why later.
Maybe I over reacted. But I felt out of place as well, when I saw that the crowd was building up and I was the only black person in the crowd. After my little irk inside, I just felt totally out of place and needed to get out of there. I don't know how to broach this subject with my friend or what to say.