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Well I need to rant a bit + ask for advice. Okay to start off well I was listening to a couple of my friends talking at a sleepover last night as I was falling asleep and they started talking about how insecure they were but then right after they started talking about sex/physical contact. Now I get told all the time by just random people on the street that I'm gorgeous/pretty/unique blahblah(not to sound conceited at all) but honestly I don't see what anyone else see's in me. I had some hard things to go through as a child concerning physical things like I had severe scoliosis which led me to hate my body + eating disorders etc. Even though I have got surgery and you see nothing on me anymore I still feel like that little kid with a deformed body. I get asked out by guys here and there and even if I might like them...I ALWAYS turn them down because I am so insecure to the point where I just dont want anybody touching me anymore. And I wonder how will I ever have a physical relationship and it just angers me when girls go "UGH I HATE MY BODY!" *Gets naked* I am 15 and my circle of guy friends is getting so big, I feel like...I am ready to date but at the same time I just cant. I hate the fact that I'll be flirting a lot and then by the end of the day I realize that it's all pointless and I wont date them anyway, I've just given up trying to be in relationships. But the point is I'm afraid I'll get older and older and I'll still be alone. It's like I know where my problems come from and why I have this phobia...but I just cant seem to get over it and move on.
Has anyone else had anything similar like this and how did you overcome it?
Has anyone else had anything similar like this and how did you overcome it?