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So lets be clear... I've been in many many relationships. Yes I realize I am only 22 (23 in July) but I am tired of looking. I've had a grand total of 3 long term relationships; and many short term (non serious) relationships. I'm tired of hurting all the time. My longest relationship was 2 years and ended in him proposing but he turned out to be a liar and a fake. (He shot himself up with my epi-pen and faked a heart attack so that I wouldn't leave him and then re-proposed while doped up on morphine in a hospital bed.) The best of my relationship history was with a man named Aaron, he changed my life. I count him as my first real love. We dated for 11 months. The down fall was that he was sober for none of those 11 months, as it turns out when you depend on drugs to entertain yourself relationships with people who are clean (me) don't work.
I want real love. I want the mushy wonderful story book love. I want a man who's going to take care of me when I'm sick, hold me when I'm sad, and be there when I need him. And in return I want to cook him dinner while he watches football (or what ever annoying tv I won't watch), wake him up in the morning with some killer happy time, remind him daily just how blessed I am that God let me have him, and make all his friends jealous of him because he has the perfect girlfriend.
Yeah I know that the above is totally unrealistic and that's not the way that real relationships work. But it's what I want.
I guess the most disheartening part of all this is I don't even know where to find a man that fits any of the above. Yeah I know I just shouldn't look and I should just let it happen. But I don't have friends. I don't have girls that I hang out with (except you here on MUT). I have myself and that's it. I'm tired of being alone.
What do you guys think I should do?
I want real love. I want the mushy wonderful story book love. I want a man who's going to take care of me when I'm sick, hold me when I'm sad, and be there when I need him. And in return I want to cook him dinner while he watches football (or what ever annoying tv I won't watch), wake him up in the morning with some killer happy time, remind him daily just how blessed I am that God let me have him, and make all his friends jealous of him because he has the perfect girlfriend.
Yeah I know that the above is totally unrealistic and that's not the way that real relationships work. But it's what I want.
I guess the most disheartening part of all this is I don't even know where to find a man that fits any of the above. Yeah I know I just shouldn't look and I should just let it happen. But I don't have friends. I don't have girls that I hang out with (except you here on MUT). I have myself and that's it. I'm tired of being alone.
What do you guys think I should do?