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SO, I have been seeing this guy since July 2010 and I really like him. I have fell in love with him. He has a great personality, is caring, very chill to hang out with, funny and I just love him company. We have talked about having a baby together and the idea makes me really happy. I think he would be a great dad.
The downside: He is very busy with school and working so we only see each other about once a week. I am NOT cool with this. I have mentioned it in a sideways way and he hasn't really made a priority to change it. He has mentioned going on a trip together but no real plans to do it. I have been thinking of ways to have a serious conversation about it, but I don't want him to think that I want to break up with him or that I am not happy with him.
I think I am a sweet girl and I guess I am just worried about hurting his feelings. However if he is not willing to put some more effort into seeing me more often then we will have to break up. I don't want to break up but I know what I need a once a week is not cutting it for me.
What would you say? I have so many fears and emotions welled up inside of me that I just cannot think straight. Like I said I do not want to hurt his feelings but I am not being fair to myself. I want to be with someone more often especially now that summer is coming up and I am not sure he can meet my needs.
The downside: He is very busy with school and working so we only see each other about once a week. I am NOT cool with this. I have mentioned it in a sideways way and he hasn't really made a priority to change it. He has mentioned going on a trip together but no real plans to do it. I have been thinking of ways to have a serious conversation about it, but I don't want him to think that I want to break up with him or that I am not happy with him.
I think I am a sweet girl and I guess I am just worried about hurting his feelings. However if he is not willing to put some more effort into seeing me more often then we will have to break up. I don't want to break up but I know what I need a once a week is not cutting it for me.
What would you say? I have so many fears and emotions welled up inside of me that I just cannot think straight. Like I said I do not want to hurt his feelings but I am not being fair to myself. I want to be with someone more often especially now that summer is coming up and I am not sure he can meet my needs.