Originally Posted by daer0n /img/forum/go_quote.gif I didnt want to have any, yet here i am with three kids, i couldnt really say no to my husband, i love him too much and i wanted to have his babies, yeah they are a huge responsability, a mess, they bug the hell out of me, they broke my body, they barely give me time to do anything, they are huge attention sucks, but i don't care in the end, i still LOVE them with all my heart. ditto!! I was the one that hated children, never wanted them....but i wont lie, once we get where we need to be (and that wont be long) I want more!! One more, and possibly one day want to become a foster parent. There is no better joy in the world than raising a child and providing love to a child (that's just my opinion).
I do respect ladies that dont want kids, cause they can be a handful, I sometimes do want to pull my hair out, lol. I have seen the worse of the worse, cant blame someone for not wanting to experience the bad stuff.